I need help and advice. Dad became agitated this weekend whilst I was,away and my sister was looking after him. Since I came back he has carried on getting worse. A manager of adult social care came today to do a formal assessment, dad said he was not to have anyone coming to care for him, that was our job as 'his serves' just before he came he pushed me, jarring my back and while man was here raised his stick to me, which the man saw. I left them to talk them I spoke to man on my own, but still feel that no help is going to be coming. Dad has been so nasty all weekend, saying awful things about, which we are used to, but the worse was when he told us he wished he had never married my dear mum, who died last year. He is threatening to take our dog to the vets to be put down (our vet wouldn't) or tell the RSPCA to take him away. I can't take this much more, nobody seems to be taking this all seriously, his CPN is due to visit this week and I've written all this down and will drop it off at his place tomorrow, but even he doesn't seem to realise how bad it's getting. I work full time and to be honest this is like respite for me, I'm thinking of going to GP to let them know just how hard I'm finding all this, but the last thing I need is to be signed off as then I would be at home with dad. I just want someone to seem to understand and give me the help and advice I desperately need.