I am hoping that someone can help with my question about end of life eating and drinking.
Mum is 86, has had Dementia for the last 3 years as well as being immobile from Arthritis. She has a grade 4 pressure sore and is on a fentanyl 25mcg patch for pain control. In the last 3weeks she has noticeably deteriorated and this week the nursing home has started to leave her in bed for most of the day just turning her regularly. She has lost a significant amount of weight and it is clear that she is dying.
I have read alot about the loss of appetite and the likely survival time from when people stop eating as being around 3 weeks. Does this refer to the complete refusal of food?
The reason for my question is that mum is eating very very little, just a few sips of Ensure and about 15-20 small teaspoons of food at lunch, if I go in myself to feed her, which takes 2 hours. I don't know if am I doing the right thing in trying to get her to eat, as she is really not interested and is very sleepy now.
My brother is planning to visit in 3-4 weeks and I just don't know if mum has that long left - can anyone advise whether there will be any other signs that she only has days left ?
a few questions I know, but I have a hard decision to make about my brother, as he will only visit once ( family problems)
Mum is 86, has had Dementia for the last 3 years as well as being immobile from Arthritis. She has a grade 4 pressure sore and is on a fentanyl 25mcg patch for pain control. In the last 3weeks she has noticeably deteriorated and this week the nursing home has started to leave her in bed for most of the day just turning her regularly. She has lost a significant amount of weight and it is clear that she is dying.
I have read alot about the loss of appetite and the likely survival time from when people stop eating as being around 3 weeks. Does this refer to the complete refusal of food?
The reason for my question is that mum is eating very very little, just a few sips of Ensure and about 15-20 small teaspoons of food at lunch, if I go in myself to feed her, which takes 2 hours. I don't know if am I doing the right thing in trying to get her to eat, as she is really not interested and is very sleepy now.
My brother is planning to visit in 3-4 weeks and I just don't know if mum has that long left - can anyone advise whether there will be any other signs that she only has days left ?
a few questions I know, but I have a hard decision to make about my brother, as he will only visit once ( family problems)