Hello I'm a newbie here so not sure if posting in the right place. My mum 87 being cared for at home and has mixed dementia (Vascular) diagnosed 3 years ago and has been bedridden since June last year with full care package. She has been deteriorating rapidly over the past month & has been sleeping more - & going into what I can only call a trance for a few minutes that I cant seem to bring her out of. Her eyes are closed all the time and is quite frequently agitated throughout the day (Lorezpam). Her food & liquids are thickened as her swallow is deteriorating as well and is developing multiple bedsores and skin now breaking down, she also has swelling in hands, lower arms and feet. She no longer recognises any of her family and constantly calling out for dead relatives. Her GP attended her last week as she seemed to be unresponsive at times. The GP has now put in place and End of Life Care Plan and as her bones are cracking on movement he has prescribed Oromorph 1ml every 4 hours and a referral for the hospice nurse to attend mum to carry out a pain management assessment. We have to keep turning her to alleviate the sores and these are being treated by the nurse. I am totally confused and don't know if this is normal (if anything with dementia is normal) that happens because the doctor has also asked a dietitian and SALT nurse to come out and see mum - they have been out before so I just don't know the reasoning for this at end of life care. She is still being fed porridge, youghurts etc., only a few spoonfuls. Is mum really at the end or like the rest of this terrible illness can this "stage" go on indefinitely I am just so confused any advice???