My lovely mum has been in hospital twice in the last 3 weeks due to Aspiration Pneumonia, She is still there after being admitted last Saturday. We have been told that she will be on 'End Of Life Care' if she goes back to the nursing home.
Unfortunately the hospital need the bed and told the nursing home last Thursday she could be discharged, even though she had been on Nil By Mouth for 5 days. The nursing home refused to have her back unless the hospital had tried to 'risk feed' her first - plus '' the care home manager was going on holiday '' until this Thursday and did not want to leave her staff to take care of mom if they hadn't tried to feed her, otherwise when the carers fed her on discharge she might aspirate again.
I am starting to loose my patients with all this faffing around, the hospital need the bed and the home don't want her unless she can eat and drink ( a little) and the care home manager wants her holiday !!!! and in the middle is my lovely mom who is suffering. The hospital are trying to Risk Feedher and she is managing very small amounts. I was wondering if anyone has any experience of taking someone with dementia out of a nuring home and putting them into a Hospice where she can be properley cared for in 'end Of Life'
thanks
Shandy
Unfortunately the hospital need the bed and told the nursing home last Thursday she could be discharged, even though she had been on Nil By Mouth for 5 days. The nursing home refused to have her back unless the hospital had tried to 'risk feed' her first - plus '' the care home manager was going on holiday '' until this Thursday and did not want to leave her staff to take care of mom if they hadn't tried to feed her, otherwise when the carers fed her on discharge she might aspirate again.
I am starting to loose my patients with all this faffing around, the hospital need the bed and the home don't want her unless she can eat and drink ( a little) and the care home manager wants her holiday !!!! and in the middle is my lovely mom who is suffering. The hospital are trying to Risk Feedher and she is managing very small amounts. I was wondering if anyone has any experience of taking someone with dementia out of a nuring home and putting them into a Hospice where she can be properley cared for in 'end Of Life'
thanks
Shandy
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