Thank you all for your support...IWonder@ i am so sorry you going through this terrible ordeal..i think to witness a loved one be stripped off the dignity and also there self worth is horrific and inhuman to me..my mum like most parents and loved ones who go through this journey..was a very proud and dignity..she took amazing pride in her appearance and she raised 8 children..she never had much in monetary values..but our house was always full off love..alsways home cooked food on the go!!..my mum would be mortified to see herself like this..her children feeding her..cares and family seeing to personal needs.unable to move own body postion in bed..she been bed bound unable to move for nearly 10 months...she is in the foetal postion!!..just wish god would wrap his arm around her and let her have peace..i hate dementia with a passion they why it as took my beautiful mum..yet as left will a shell off a body..my heart and prayers goes out to everyone who is on the journey.xxx