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Discussion in 'End of life care' started by Baby Bunty, Jan 8, 2019.
Sorry to hear of your loss, but a beautiful way to celebrate your mum's life at the end.
Your Mum would be proud of you
Hope so..spent day with priest today talking about mum. We actually laughed it was lovely and i mean lovely..just been busy writing out verse for paper and also eulogy..i am finding it very therapeutic ..i agree to speak in church..not sure it will happen!!
Ah that's lovely @Baby Bunty
That sounds very comforting @Baby Bunty. When my husband died I agreed to speak at the church. I typed up my speech and had a copy ready for the minister. The plan was that if I couldn't do it on the day he would read it for me. I actually made it on the day. Strength came from somewhere.
Wishing you well.
@Baby Bunty. Your day sounds lovely. I’m planning speak at my Dad’s funeral too. I think it will be therapeutic talking about his life and all that he achieved. He self built 2 houses for example.
It’s so strange I can’t believe he’s gone.
Its been a long few days..well 12 excalty..feeling a little overwhelmed with everthing..think Its finally hit home!!..mum will be in chapel off rest for 2 days then going to my sisters house for 2 days!..we have requested for mum to be layed out in a shroud..but i brought new under wear and night dress as cant stand the thought of mum being cold!!!!!!..how weird does that sound..i want to make sure she snug!!!!..aa i am text this i know it does not made sense..but as my husband said do what makes me happy!.xx i am having a day at home Tomorrow..plan on doing nothing..having a pj day with rubbish tv..euroly is almost finished ..i am very proud off myself.xxxxxx
@Baby Bunty, thank you for the update.
I don't think it matters if it makes "sense." Just do what you need to do, and what feels right.
Thanks for reply..its hard making sense off it all..verse was in local paper tonight..i wrote it as i am good with words off all family..however when i read in paper i literally sobbed..!..feel lonely and miss my mum!!
@Baby Bunty I am with you there I miss my dad and husband Alzheimer’s and my Mum cancer...
So sorry..its a painful feeling..i got a constant ache in my heart..i literally cant stop looking at photos.xxxxx
Bg hugs. Such a horrible mix of emotions.xx