Please point me in the right direction. I've read about employing live-in carers or taking someone from an agency but can't find any posts now when I search. I know you have someone Izzy. It's not for my OH but for Mum. She is failing now (95) with chirrosis of the liver (she has never touched a drop). She has always had loose bowels due to Crohns diseas, but the chirrosis makes her virtually incontinent. I can't live with her as I have OH to look after. She can afford to pay someone but how do I find someone? She is in York. She doesn't have dementia. Thanks.