I feel that this is not a legal matter at all, but an emotional matter..... and sadly as we all know, there are no winners in an emotional arguement, all are losers.
If you persist in demanding to see your brother, you run the risk of adding to his stress levels to the extent that he sees no one because he is too ill.
I suggest you ask your husband to contact his SIL and ask if he may visit alone. It may be that he can succeed where you are failing. I know that I can be stubborn and if I hear the voice of someone who annoys me, I get angry before I've even spoken to them.
I do understand where you are coming from, but at the moment, the important one is your Brother, and your feelings must come second.
I really do hope that you get your Sunday mornings back soon. My sister died 20 years ago....I still miss our times together.
If you persist in demanding to see your brother, you run the risk of adding to his stress levels to the extent that he sees no one because he is too ill.
I suggest you ask your husband to contact his SIL and ask if he may visit alone. It may be that he can succeed where you are failing. I know that I can be stubborn and if I hear the voice of someone who annoys me, I get angry before I've even spoken to them.
I do understand where you are coming from, but at the moment, the important one is your Brother, and your feelings must come second.
I really do hope that you get your Sunday mornings back soon. My sister died 20 years ago....I still miss our times together.