Well, my Dad (83 in moderate stages of AZ) was asked to leave his Nursing Home last week due to aggressive outbursts during the night time wanderings that they were unable to manage.
I seem to have been turned down by every residential home in the area due to Dad's aggressive night-time antics (I think he was probably not handled well at night when he was doped up to try to help him to sleep, but that's another story), and all professionals suggested I look for a placement in an EMI Unit.
Took Dad to new home today... £8700 poorer (he's self funding), and it was quite an overwhelming experience... lots of wanderers at the new home and lots of ramblers and grabby clingy people that really freaked Dad (and frankly me) out... I'm not sure what to do... I guess if Dad were further along in the disease it would not matter, but he is still very with it during the day and I worry about how he will cope. I realise it is early days, but just wondered whether there was anything in-between residential and EMI. It seems to be all or nothing and the people that are in between must find it all so daunting.
We lost my Mum in October, so poor Dad has suffered a major bereavement (after 54 yrs of marriage) and now TWO major moves in the last 4 months. If I were him, I would be addled too.
We'll see what happens - he was checking out all the emergency exits earlier. Just about to phone now to see how it's all going. Any suggestions as to how to cope (me and him) welcome...
I seem to have been turned down by every residential home in the area due to Dad's aggressive night-time antics (I think he was probably not handled well at night when he was doped up to try to help him to sleep, but that's another story), and all professionals suggested I look for a placement in an EMI Unit.
Took Dad to new home today... £8700 poorer (he's self funding), and it was quite an overwhelming experience... lots of wanderers at the new home and lots of ramblers and grabby clingy people that really freaked Dad (and frankly me) out... I'm not sure what to do... I guess if Dad were further along in the disease it would not matter, but he is still very with it during the day and I worry about how he will cope. I realise it is early days, but just wondered whether there was anything in-between residential and EMI. It seems to be all or nothing and the people that are in between must find it all so daunting.
We lost my Mum in October, so poor Dad has suffered a major bereavement (after 54 yrs of marriage) and now TWO major moves in the last 4 months. If I were him, I would be addled too.
We'll see what happens - he was checking out all the emergency exits earlier. Just about to phone now to see how it's all going. Any suggestions as to how to cope (me and him) welcome...