My mum has dementia and is starting to get difficult to care for. My elderly dad who has his own health issues is her main carer. I have 3 siblings and we all do as much as we can. He is doing his best but is not a very good carer. He looses his temper easily, still gets cross when she gets upset or confised. She often gets up at night and he sleeps through and often wakes to find she has been wandering round the house and weeing on the floor not the toilet. He loves her I know but is very stubborn so we are not sure how to move forward. I just wonder if anybody else is in a similar position?