Hello Natasha,
I joined TP after you left. However I have just read your post.
Even though I don't know you, nor did I follow your Dementia Journey with your Mum, I am so glad to hear that you have picked up the reins, have a loving husband, your sons are thriving too. It holds up a beacon of light for us in our dark hours, to know that life can become 'normal' post dementia.
I wish you even happier days ahead - days where answers become totally irrelevant, as your Mum is safely beyond the claws of dementia, and you don't even need to think about it as your job is done and over.
Enjoy life, every day is there to savour. Dementia free at last. Hugs BE