I can only reiterate what love.dad.but said.
It is so important to make some time for yourself.
I am a carer twice over for my disabled daughter of 27 and my Mum of 92 who has dementia. When my Mum was first diagnosed she came to live with us. I admit I was naive when I thought that whilst I was caring for one another one would not make a difference and for 7 years it didn't but at Christmas I reluctantly decided to move Mum into a care home. Factor in that my Mum's mental abilities declined, my daughters physical abilities have declined and I am 8 years older I was on my knees and something had to give.
It's so hard to deal with but at my age now I am married, I have children, I have travelled a bit and I console myself with the fact that I am only dealing with what many of my age cope with.
Yes I still want more travelling but with Mum now being well looked after in the care home I am a little freer to achieve that even though it involves planning it with military precision because my wheelchair dependent daughter accompanies me but I want to make memories for her and me before I am too old to do it.
You are much younger and deserve far more. I am not sure how you can achieve it but try even in a little way, to get a break and have regular things to look forward to. If you don't you will quite naturally be prone to gettting resentful and depressed and it's very hard to carry on in that frame of mind. My best wishes to you.
It is so important to make some time for yourself.
I am a carer twice over for my disabled daughter of 27 and my Mum of 92 who has dementia. When my Mum was first diagnosed she came to live with us. I admit I was naive when I thought that whilst I was caring for one another one would not make a difference and for 7 years it didn't but at Christmas I reluctantly decided to move Mum into a care home. Factor in that my Mum's mental abilities declined, my daughters physical abilities have declined and I am 8 years older I was on my knees and something had to give.
It's so hard to deal with but at my age now I am married, I have children, I have travelled a bit and I console myself with the fact that I am only dealing with what many of my age cope with.
Yes I still want more travelling but with Mum now being well looked after in the care home I am a little freer to achieve that even though it involves planning it with military precision because my wheelchair dependent daughter accompanies me but I want to make memories for her and me before I am too old to do it.
You are much younger and deserve far more. I am not sure how you can achieve it but try even in a little way, to get a break and have regular things to look forward to. If you don't you will quite naturally be prone to gettting resentful and depressed and it's very hard to carry on in that frame of mind. My best wishes to you.