I am looking after dad in his own home and his wish is to die at home. It is very hard, dad was diagnosed with an advanced cancer way over a year ago and due to his frail state and palliative care only I did not expect him to still be here now but he is. I am truly amazed at how such a frail and sick person manages to recover from so many setbacks and just carry on but he does.
We don't have any medication at home yet because he is not that bad but we get a monthly call from the hospice to check how is is and I am grateful for that. To be honest I can see dad going on for a long time yet but who knows. I agree it's scary and I cannot promise that dad will die at home. He may well be better off in a hospice and it is likely that he won't know where he is anyway.
Sorry I am not a lot of help to you but I wish you well and lots of strength.[/QUOTE]
@Doggy86* I am looking after dad in his own home and his wish is to die at home. It is very hard, dad was diagnosed with an advanced cancer way over a year ago and due to his frail state and palliative care only I did not expect him to still be here now but he is. I am truly amazed at how such a frail and sick person manages to recover from so many setbacks and just carry on but he does.
We don't have any medication at home yet because he is not that bad but we get a monthly call from the hospice to check how is is and I am grateful for that. To be honest I can see dad going on for a long time yet but who knows. I agree it's scary and I cannot promise that dad will die at home. He may well be better off in a hospice and it is likely that he won't know where he is anyway.
Sorry I am not a lot of help to you but I wish you well and lots of strength.[/QUOTE]