Hi All,
My mum aged 75 has been referred to the memory clinic after I raised concerns about her mental wellbeing. The nurse asked me if I thought her driving was safe and I said personally I don't think so. Now the nurse has sent mum a letter saying she's to stop as of 31st August. I've not seen the letter, I live 115 miles away and Mum even denied that she had the letter until yesterday. She says she's going to carry on driving because who would know!
I don't know what to do and feel that this is all my fault. Is she legally able to drive until she is contacted by DVLA. Mum says she can no longer live because she can't go out to get shopping, Drs, hairdressers etc. That's not true she has a food shop in walking distance and I have suggested taxi, bus, dial a ride but her only reply was 'I won't do that'. I'm trying to help but don't know how.
Thankfully the memory nurse is coming for her initial appointment at mum's house on Tuesday. My Dad died in June so I am still dealing with that and now that he's gone the severity of mum's condition seems to have come to light.
Any advice would be grateful.
My mum aged 75 has been referred to the memory clinic after I raised concerns about her mental wellbeing. The nurse asked me if I thought her driving was safe and I said personally I don't think so. Now the nurse has sent mum a letter saying she's to stop as of 31st August. I've not seen the letter, I live 115 miles away and Mum even denied that she had the letter until yesterday. She says she's going to carry on driving because who would know!
I don't know what to do and feel that this is all my fault. Is she legally able to drive until she is contacted by DVLA. Mum says she can no longer live because she can't go out to get shopping, Drs, hairdressers etc. That's not true she has a food shop in walking distance and I have suggested taxi, bus, dial a ride but her only reply was 'I won't do that'. I'm trying to help but don't know how.
Thankfully the memory nurse is coming for her initial appointment at mum's house on Tuesday. My Dad died in June so I am still dealing with that and now that he's gone the severity of mum's condition seems to have come to light.
Any advice would be grateful.