Hi everyone,
I am in a bit of a quandary about my o.h. drinking. Just to give some background he has been retired now for eight years and was diagnosed with alzheimers in 2015, although I feel he has had this much longer despite his former g.p. saying e was tested whilst off work with depression just before he retired. He was a crime journalist during his working life so the pub was always a good source of information.
Currently, after an accident in Nov. last year he does not now go out on his own, but he likes to go to the pub and I take him. We always go to the same place usually for a few of hours in the afternoons, except on Saturdays when I insist we stay in so I can get on with jobs, prepping meals for the freezer, washing, ironing etc. etc. and usually on a Monday we go out for a meal and he drinks about 2-3 pints.
He has cut down and usually copes very well and although he doesn't take much part in conversations I know he listens and enjoys being with people.
Am I doing the right thing here, I know that his meds do not work as well if he drinks (usually about 4-5 pints over about 3hrs) but its something he has always done and I don't feel I want to deprive him. I would be grateful for anyone's views on this.
I am in a bit of a quandary about my o.h. drinking. Just to give some background he has been retired now for eight years and was diagnosed with alzheimers in 2015, although I feel he has had this much longer despite his former g.p. saying e was tested whilst off work with depression just before he retired. He was a crime journalist during his working life so the pub was always a good source of information.
Currently, after an accident in Nov. last year he does not now go out on his own, but he likes to go to the pub and I take him. We always go to the same place usually for a few of hours in the afternoons, except on Saturdays when I insist we stay in so I can get on with jobs, prepping meals for the freezer, washing, ironing etc. etc. and usually on a Monday we go out for a meal and he drinks about 2-3 pints.
He has cut down and usually copes very well and although he doesn't take much part in conversations I know he listens and enjoys being with people.
Am I doing the right thing here, I know that his meds do not work as well if he drinks (usually about 4-5 pints over about 3hrs) but its something he has always done and I don't feel I want to deprive him. I would be grateful for anyone's views on this.