To day my husband messed himself in the middle of the afternoon. while i was cleaning him up he urinated all over me. He also keeps touching his poo and it goes everywhere is this usual. I am disabled and find it very difficult to clean him. Tomorrow i am having a paid carer coming in the morning to wash and dress him. But what about the rest of the day. I tried to get help from Social services but they said we have to pay for our own carers as we have above a certain amount of money. We have paid into nhs all our lives but because we have been careful we are paying the penalty like a lot of other disabled people. sorry to go on but i am feeling so low.