Hello again, I have not posted for some time now.
My mum's dementia has now progressed quite a lot. Our main problem is the incontinence, mainly because she refuses to wear any pads or protection of any kind. Now when a pad is put on her, within minutes she will go into the toilet and remove it, leaving it on the floor or putting it down the loo. We have tried pull ups but she takes them off. What can we do?? Dad is her carer and has to deal with this 24/7, he is 87 yrs old, So sad, she was such a dignified lady. Yesterday when I was trying to persuade her to put a pad on she cried ans said "you make me feel filthy."
Does anyone have a suggestion of something to soak the urine saturated clothes in to neutralise the smell until they are washed? Iam so frustrate, wanting to help dad and not knowing how? He will let me do very little.
My mum's dementia has now progressed quite a lot. Our main problem is the incontinence, mainly because she refuses to wear any pads or protection of any kind. Now when a pad is put on her, within minutes she will go into the toilet and remove it, leaving it on the floor or putting it down the loo. We have tried pull ups but she takes them off. What can we do?? Dad is her carer and has to deal with this 24/7, he is 87 yrs old, So sad, she was such a dignified lady. Yesterday when I was trying to persuade her to put a pad on she cried ans said "you make me feel filthy."
Does anyone have a suggestion of something to soak the urine saturated clothes in to neutralise the smell until they are washed? Iam so frustrate, wanting to help dad and not knowing how? He will let me do very little.