1. berkeley

    berkeley Registered User

    Sep 28, 2012
    58
    Hampshire
    I am told I was with my darling Peter when he died on Wednesday and that I stayed with him for nearly 2 hours. I don't remember. I don't know if I said goodbye. I don't know if this is real.
     
  2. Cat27

    Cat27 Volunteer Moderator

    Feb 27, 2015
    9,765
    Merseyside
    I'm so sorry you've lost your darling Peter.
    You're grieving & probably slightly shell shocked. Sending love & hugs xx
     
  3. CollegeGirl

    CollegeGirl Registered User

    Jan 19, 2011
    9,535
    North East England
    I'm so very sorry, please accept my condolences. Even if you don't remember at the moment, you were there for your dear Peter when he needed you. Perhaps the memory will come back in time. Sending love and strength to you for the coming days xxx
     
  4. Izzy

    Izzy Volunteer Moderator

    Aug 31, 2003
    58,702
    Female
    Dundee
    I'm so sorry to read of your loss. Sending my condolences and wishing you strength.
     
  5. sleepless

    sleepless Registered User

    Feb 19, 2010
    3,232
    Female
    The Sweet North
    Sending you my sympathy, and wishing you comfort in your sad loss. Please try to rest if you can, you must be in shock, and I hope you will find comfort from knowing you were with Peter when he passed away. xx
     
  6. canary

    canary Registered User

    Feb 25, 2014
    9,310
    Female
    South coast
    Its the shock Berkeley - Im sure the memory will come back
    (((hugs))))
     
  7. Saffie

    Saffie Registered User

    Mar 26, 2011
    22,490
    Female
    Near Southampton
    The death of a partner is such a traumatic experience and no matter how much we prepare ourseves for it, it is hard to take in that it has actually happened.
    You were with your loved one when he left this world and able to comfort and reassure him and that is what matters.
    In time, you will remember but the reality of it will take a little longer I think.
    Sending symapthy. x
     
  8. berkeley

    berkeley Registered User

    Sep 28, 2012
    58
    Hampshire
    Thank you all
     
  9. patsy56

    patsy56 Registered User

    Jan 14, 2015
    840
    Fife Scotland
    sorry for your loss, and my condolences, but yess you are probably in a state of shock
     
  10. Loopiloo

    Loopiloo Registered User

    May 10, 2010
    6,117
    Female
    Scotland
    I do feel for you. As others have said, the memory may well come to you in time. As Saffie said no matter how much you think you have prepared for this final loss the shock is immense. You were there with your Peter at the end and I hope that will eventually bring you comfort.

    My deepest sympathy to you. Wishing you renewed strength in the time ahead.

    Loo xxx
     
  11. LadyA

    LadyA Registered User

    Oct 19, 2009
    13,451
    Ireland
    So sorry for your loss. It does sound like you are both in shock and exhausted. xx
     

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