I was looking for advice, my mother in law, was rushed into hospital 2 weeks ago with a very low heart beat, we had taken her to dr few days before after a week of not eating or drinking much or walking standing on her own as she had been doing, to basically be told to keep at it and give her ensure. She spent 5 day in hospital hooked up to heart machine and was then discharged as heart beat rose. The physio came to see her told us she could stand, sit stand and walk 17 metres with walking frame although we knew this was not the case as we asked to see her doing it and couldn't get out of the chair. After 10 months of caring for her on our own we asked for respite care to be told none available in our area and we could have carers coming in so we now have 2 carers 4 times a day. The eating drinking has not improve and now even the carers are struggling to move her, we are awaiting a respite bed with a view to to becoming permanent but we are so sad to see the change in her in a month. MIL wont eat anything that involves chewing only eats very soft food and drinks sips at a time. I now blend all the meat with gravy, mash all the vegetable and make home made soups as well as making jelly. As MIL wont drink much it helps to get the fluids in her. But added to this she now doesn't talk to people other than yes no. Only seems happy to lay on her bed. When we took her in hospital one of the drs said she was having a steep dementia step, but now it looks like this is another with the non communication and wanting to lay on bed away from people.
Does anyone know if this is normal or what we should expect next I know every one is different but was wondering if anyone has been here and offer any advice Sorry its a long post and thank you for reading
Does anyone know if this is normal or what we should expect next I know every one is different but was wondering if anyone has been here and offer any advice Sorry its a long post and thank you for reading