my first time posting not sure if this is right way to do it but here goes, i have been reading posts on tp for a while and it has helped me cope thank you, any advice would be welcomed, my mam has suffered alzhimers for probably 8 years,she lives on her own. the first years we just got on with things, i have her at my home every day apart from one when my relative take her,my problem is she is now at a stage where she has no short term memory at all, cannot make anything to eat, doesnt wash thinks she is fine,will not go to any centre or have anyone in to help.her oven washer microwave are all disconnected for her safety
when i take her home at night she HATES to stay in so goes along the local pub,often sittin by herself, and she doesnt lock door. social worker was good at first trying to help but mam is awkward to help so seems to have backed off,,don,t want to go on and on but my dilema is family members and friends now think it is time mam was looked after in a home, but the only way this will happen is to be sectioned,what frightens me is the fact that she can be very aware of what is going on while at other times completely confused and i know it would be a dreadful time for her, i need the help of other people to look after her and know in my heart they are right but how can i do it? any advice appreciated
when i take her home at night she HATES to stay in so goes along the local pub,often sittin by herself, and she doesnt lock door. social worker was good at first trying to help but mam is awkward to help so seems to have backed off,,don,t want to go on and on but my dilema is family members and friends now think it is time mam was looked after in a home, but the only way this will happen is to be sectioned,what frightens me is the fact that she can be very aware of what is going on while at other times completely confused and i know it would be a dreadful time for her, i need the help of other people to look after her and know in my heart they are right but how can i do it? any advice appreciated