How do you not ask questions? My OH diagnosed with FTD last year but, with hindsight, has been suffering much longer, after an accident 12 years ago resulting in brain injury, gets so angry when I ask a question. He is in a CH and I visit every other day. As per usual, we don't do anything much as he doesn't want to. When he was at home all he wanted to do was to go the pub. He didn't want to talk to anyone so we went when no one else was there. Now we watch TV during my visits. Whenever I try to engage in a conversation such as during the recent England Scotland rugby match, I asked a question about rugby, which he played back in his youth, ( he's 72) he got cross and just replied " why do you keep asking me questions. I don't know" . This happens every time I try to start a conversation. It becomes very hard to just sit there not saying anything. Also I sometimes wonder if he has selective memory loss and simply does not want to remember. I feel as though I have to watch everything I say. I'd love to be able to tell him how much I miss him, but that wouldn't help as he'd be even more upset at not being at home. It's so hard not being able to share anything about home as he simply doesn't accept that he can't, and I can't, cope with him being here. This dementia journey gets bumpier everyday!!!! Thank goodness for friends, family and TP