I know there's quite a few of us who have lost our loved ones recently. It's been 4 months since I lost my mum and I was wondering if grieving makes you totally exhausted? I seemed to go at 100 miles an hour after mum died, I was busy fighting with complaints about mum's care etc, which I think helped me avoid breaking down because I felt I was still doing something worthwhile for her. Now I am totally wiped out. Do others whom have suffered a loss feel like this?