Dear Sue
I think you are very normal.Your loss is very new. I lost my darling David last June. At first I was in a fog and just went through the motions of daily neccesities.Things did not get better with the passage of time but changed.In some ways its a bit worse as I am more aware if you can understand me? Strangely I cry more now than I did at the begining. However I also laugh and smile when talking about him and remembering the things we did, both before his illness and during.I also talk to him alot both in my head and out loud, I can even hear his repy!
When I go out I find the hardest part is coming home and him not being here.
I think the saying time is a great healer is in fact not true, but what time does is allow you to slowly come to terms with such a great loss.
I often think that everything has a price and that it is worth paying when you have shared your life with someone you truely love and who loved you.
Take care x
I think you are very normal.Your loss is very new. I lost my darling David last June. At first I was in a fog and just went through the motions of daily neccesities.Things did not get better with the passage of time but changed.In some ways its a bit worse as I am more aware if you can understand me? Strangely I cry more now than I did at the begining. However I also laugh and smile when talking about him and remembering the things we did, both before his illness and during.I also talk to him alot both in my head and out loud, I can even hear his repy!
When I go out I find the hardest part is coming home and him not being here.
I think the saying time is a great healer is in fact not true, but what time does is allow you to slowly come to terms with such a great loss.
I often think that everything has a price and that it is worth paying when you have shared your life with someone you truely love and who loved you.
Take care x