Hi I can't find my other post so sorry if I'm repeating myself. My mum is at home with the support of 4 carers a day. She doesn't stay near us and we don't drive. She's only got to keep her dog because we pay for someone to walk and feed him otherwise she would forget or overfeed him. She wont give up her dog. If you ask her if she wants to sell the house she says no. If you ask her if she wants to go into a care home she says no. Certain things she knows but her short term memory is awful. She has an older style POA and I got a lawyer out to update to the new version, but she says she thinks my mum could be borderline. The appointment is on Wednesday for the GP to certify this or not. I am totally dreading it, mum is aware of so much and still knows what she wants etc but the words just elude her. I feel so worried should I go to the appointment?