I do have a problem re continuity. I am registered at a different GP surgery to my husband. He fell out with my GP and moved - I stayed. I do actually like my GP as he ' shoots from the hip' and tells m e what the NHS is likely to do, not what it SHOULD do , especially with relation to sectioning. Also I can walk to the Surgery where as husband's would mean a taxi.
However, this does make it difficult to get help for my husband. I have written to my husband's GP who in fairness is very good. She did ask me if I thought he was confused whilst he was changing after an examination. This caused world war 3 when we got home - him threatening to sue the Surgery as she was not allowed to talk to me behind his back. I did have to fudge al ittle and say she was worried he was taking too much morphine as it was a 'controlled drug'
She did say she had taken my concerns on board. In fairness, I did not ask her to pursue the potential dementia problem as I am very frightened of my husband - he is an intellectual bully. If he thought I was trying to pursue this, then he would be very abusive.
I can see how hard it is for my GP - he did say I should ideally go and see my husbands GP but this is difficult as It is hard for me to leave the house alone and also is she under any obligation to see me? I do go with my husband to his consultations as he is quite deaf but won't admit it as apparently all GP's mumble.
I wonder how others have coped? Have they moved to the same Surgery? I did find my GP was 110% with regard to my late father and gave up his afternoon off to get the ambulance service to take my father into hospital and I do trust him. Yet I can see how much easier it would be to be at the same Surgery. MY GP says he cannot liaise directly with my husbands' GP.
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However, this does make it difficult to get help for my husband. I have written to my husband's GP who in fairness is very good. She did ask me if I thought he was confused whilst he was changing after an examination. This caused world war 3 when we got home - him threatening to sue the Surgery as she was not allowed to talk to me behind his back. I did have to fudge al ittle and say she was worried he was taking too much morphine as it was a 'controlled drug'
She did say she had taken my concerns on board. In fairness, I did not ask her to pursue the potential dementia problem as I am very frightened of my husband - he is an intellectual bully. If he thought I was trying to pursue this, then he would be very abusive.
I can see how hard it is for my GP - he did say I should ideally go and see my husbands GP but this is difficult as It is hard for me to leave the house alone and also is she under any obligation to see me? I do go with my husband to his consultations as he is quite deaf but won't admit it as apparently all GP's mumble.
I wonder how others have coped? Have they moved to the same Surgery? I did find my GP was 110% with regard to my late father and gave up his afternoon off to get the ambulance service to take my father into hospital and I do trust him. Yet I can see how much easier it would be to be at the same Surgery. MY GP says he cannot liaise directly with my husbands' GP.
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