Hi everyone hope you can help, Mum suffers from AD VD I dont know which as I have had two diagnosis. Mum recently went into respite for four days this is only the second time in two years. When I collect her this monday I was told she had an accident (messed herself) and they had to bath her and that she had become aggressive with the staff in the following days. When we arrived home she was quite distressed, and took off all her clothes. I discovered that she did not have a bra on she had one vest one which was not hers ( mum likes two vest). She had a pad on and net nickers but not a proper pair of nickers on. All clothing was supplied for the complete four days. she has bruises on her right wrist, left upper arm and both legs just above her knees. It seems quite clear that they man handled her to bath her and I am not at all suprised she become aggresive with the staff. What should I do? I only care about mum and I do not intent to use this care home again for respite.