My mum over lockdown has been in a care home and has Alzeimhers. She is wheelchair bound as she had 2 falls where she broke her femur bone initially and then her hip. Consultants have said no surgery as high risk and for her to live out her days. This is not the life we planned for her after losing my dad just over 2 years ago. She is not eating and drastically losing weight. She may have to go to hospital and be put on a drip which will upset her even more. The care home have asked us about dnr. We are so torn. What do we do. Poa in place but it's a really difficult decision. She is diabetic and so frail. We as siblings don't know what to do about consenting to dnr. It's so hard. What kind of life would she have if she was resuscitated.