Does anyone else have a feeling of disloyalty and betrayal to their partner, when having to discuss new symptoms/behaviour with the doctor? I know I should be more concerned about my husbands feelings, but every time we have a meeting, I leave the surgery in tears at my disloyalty to my husband of 50 years. Does it pass? Will it always feel like betrayal instead of a way to try and help him? Sorry for the self-pity, but we have a meeting this afternoon and I'm dreading it.