Hello everyone
I have just registered with TP and hope I am posting this thread correctly. I spent the afternoon reading some very familiar stories and browsing the site generally but what really prompted me to join was a telephone call I received today. My husband has suffered from AD for several years and since last year has attended a day centre twice aweek. This is great! About a month ago I wanted to go to an exhibition on the Sunday and rang a local care home to see if they could provide care. After asking about his condition and requesting his community care assessment he was accepted. I took him at 9.00am and collected him at 4.00pm. The care worker said he had been fine and I decided to use the home on a 4 to 6 week basis. When I rang today, a month later, I was told that he had been very distressed and kept wandering outside because they do not have a locked door policy and I would have to find somewhere more suitable. I can accept the reasons but, as I asked, why was nothing said on that sunday or why didn't they phone me later. Needless to say I shall be writing for an explanation.
I'm not normally so grumpy but carers look forward so much to these odd outings and it's a big disappointment. Thanks for listening
zoe
I have just registered with TP and hope I am posting this thread correctly. I spent the afternoon reading some very familiar stories and browsing the site generally but what really prompted me to join was a telephone call I received today. My husband has suffered from AD for several years and since last year has attended a day centre twice aweek. This is great! About a month ago I wanted to go to an exhibition on the Sunday and rang a local care home to see if they could provide care. After asking about his condition and requesting his community care assessment he was accepted. I took him at 9.00am and collected him at 4.00pm. The care worker said he had been fine and I decided to use the home on a 4 to 6 week basis. When I rang today, a month later, I was told that he had been very distressed and kept wandering outside because they do not have a locked door policy and I would have to find somewhere more suitable. I can accept the reasons but, as I asked, why was nothing said on that sunday or why didn't they phone me later. Needless to say I shall be writing for an explanation.
I'm not normally so grumpy but carers look forward so much to these odd outings and it's a big disappointment. Thanks for listening
zoe