Not in the position of many of you, I know. It’s early days for me and my OH. But the man I know is disappearing and I feel so sad and bereaved.
We had a blip in the summer, and I thought we were getting back to a previous pattern, but perhaps I just got used to it. Now, I sometimes/frequently feel he’s behaving like a child, not my partner. I shouldn’t complain, it could be, will no doubt be, much, much worse. He hasn’t been diagnosed yet. Is it harder to diagnose very intelligent people, because they can answer questions for a longer time?
Yes, I ‘m getting used to taking responsibility for things he’s always has done. I used to/still do find it hard sometimes but what I also find find hard, is when he just lets me. No pleasing me! But he’s aware, and frequently feels bad about it. I suppose that will go.
I tried to tell my son over the phone (he lives a long way away) and realised he was only listening with half an ear, whilst he did something else! So much for family support.
We had a blip in the summer, and I thought we were getting back to a previous pattern, but perhaps I just got used to it. Now, I sometimes/frequently feel he’s behaving like a child, not my partner. I shouldn’t complain, it could be, will no doubt be, much, much worse. He hasn’t been diagnosed yet. Is it harder to diagnose very intelligent people, because they can answer questions for a longer time?
Yes, I ‘m getting used to taking responsibility for things he’s always has done. I used to/still do find it hard sometimes but what I also find find hard, is when he just lets me. No pleasing me! But he’s aware, and frequently feels bad about it. I suppose that will go.
I tried to tell my son over the phone (he lives a long way away) and realised he was only listening with half an ear, whilst he did something else! So much for family support.