My husband has developed sores on his bottom. The nurses at the home were treating him for this but have referred him to the tissue viability dept. They have given advice and are also visiting next week. He has been in bed, repositioned every two hours for 8 days. During the night he does scratch himself - usually the bottom as the skin is itchy.
I visit daily and feed him at lunch and teatime. He sleeps between meals for a large part of the time I’m there. Yesterday I was shocked when I saw how weak his calves looked. The nurse has said we need to try to avoid contractures. I massage his legs and as soon as he’s up will restart exercises.
All of this overwhelmed me today. Yes the guilt monster returns and I find myself thinking that if I’d kept him at home and arranged live in Carers and regular physio he may still be mobile. I hate feeling this way but every now and then it just consumes me. I don’t think I have ever felt so helpless in my life.
Sorry to moan but I needed to offload!
I visit daily and feed him at lunch and teatime. He sleeps between meals for a large part of the time I’m there. Yesterday I was shocked when I saw how weak his calves looked. The nurse has said we need to try to avoid contractures. I massage his legs and as soon as he’s up will restart exercises.
All of this overwhelmed me today. Yes the guilt monster returns and I find myself thinking that if I’d kept him at home and arranged live in Carers and regular physio he may still be mobile. I hate feeling this way but every now and then it just consumes me. I don’t think I have ever felt so helpless in my life.
Sorry to moan but I needed to offload!