Can anyone offer any advice/words of comfort. My mum has moderate Alzheimer's- not incontinent, still mobile, and can make herself understood to those who know her very well. She is in fantastic sheltered housing where everyone makes her a cup of tea or open her a can of soup when we are not there. but my sister and I are aware it is supposed to be a place for independent living. My sister and I share the evening shift of meals, company, washing. But my sister says the situation is intolerable and requested an assessment which says that Social services will fund a care home. We have already tried one care home with disastrous results; my mum got out and also hit the staff. I've gone along with my sister because I'm more worried about her than mum in a way. Any thoughts.