Hi
I have been reading some of the posts for a few months now.
My husband has been diagnosed with mixed dementia (vascular and alzheimers)
He is 55 and has been suffering for around 7/10 years although we did not get a true diagnosis until last year.
It has hit hard with both of us. He lost his job because of the memory problems. He also suffers depression and anxiety, made worse by the fact he cannot remember say to day things. He calls it Groundhog Day!
We are trying to do everything we can to prolong this awful illness. Eating healthy (when i can get him to eat) plenty of exercise. We have a dog that helps to get my hubby out into the fresh air. Medication, although he is struggling with side effects from the meds. He goes to a walking football group every 2 weeks.
This week we had a letter from the DVLA to say he has to return his drivers licence and wil be on a 1 year licence from now on. It will be reviewed every year. This has upset him greatly. After his diagnosis last year we were told we would have to inform the DVLA. As i have never learned to drive my hubby was worried how we would cope if or when he lost his licence. This fear has now spurred me on to learn to drive at the age of 54 so at least we both still have a way of going for our long walks with our dog. I started lessons back in December and i am really enjoying the experience. I passed my Theory test at the end of March and now i just have to pass the practical test.
We have a huge love of walking and our favorite place to go is to the Lake District. We enjoy our camping trips even though most times after a few weeks of being back home hubby forgets a lot of the trip. But these are our memories we are making. Our memories for me to treasure.
I have now officially become his carer and am going to a carers meeting for the first time tomorrow 11/4/17.
Not sure what to expect but our support worker advised us to try nay help resources that were offered to us. So i will give it a try.
I wont lie, i am scared of where this will all end, but i try not to worry to much about the next day we just live each day as it comes.
Sorry if i have gone on a bit but it has taken me months to pick up the courage and nerve to write this. There's only so much you can talk to family about, they have their own problems. Hence the reason for the carers group.
I don't know of anyone else around us that has been diagnosed at such a young age.
Thanks for reading
I have been reading some of the posts for a few months now.
My husband has been diagnosed with mixed dementia (vascular and alzheimers)
He is 55 and has been suffering for around 7/10 years although we did not get a true diagnosis until last year.
It has hit hard with both of us. He lost his job because of the memory problems. He also suffers depression and anxiety, made worse by the fact he cannot remember say to day things. He calls it Groundhog Day!
We are trying to do everything we can to prolong this awful illness. Eating healthy (when i can get him to eat) plenty of exercise. We have a dog that helps to get my hubby out into the fresh air. Medication, although he is struggling with side effects from the meds. He goes to a walking football group every 2 weeks.
This week we had a letter from the DVLA to say he has to return his drivers licence and wil be on a 1 year licence from now on. It will be reviewed every year. This has upset him greatly. After his diagnosis last year we were told we would have to inform the DVLA. As i have never learned to drive my hubby was worried how we would cope if or when he lost his licence. This fear has now spurred me on to learn to drive at the age of 54 so at least we both still have a way of going for our long walks with our dog. I started lessons back in December and i am really enjoying the experience. I passed my Theory test at the end of March and now i just have to pass the practical test.
We have a huge love of walking and our favorite place to go is to the Lake District. We enjoy our camping trips even though most times after a few weeks of being back home hubby forgets a lot of the trip. But these are our memories we are making. Our memories for me to treasure.
I have now officially become his carer and am going to a carers meeting for the first time tomorrow 11/4/17.
Not sure what to expect but our support worker advised us to try nay help resources that were offered to us. So i will give it a try.
I wont lie, i am scared of where this will all end, but i try not to worry to much about the next day we just live each day as it comes.
Sorry if i have gone on a bit but it has taken me months to pick up the courage and nerve to write this. There's only so much you can talk to family about, they have their own problems. Hence the reason for the carers group.
I don't know of anyone else around us that has been diagnosed at such a young age.
Thanks for reading