My mother-in-law and father-in-law have moved to an independent living facility near us. We have them settled in. My husband and I have not been given the official word on her memory loss, but it is bad. We would like to start the new year off with getting help but we are at loss of where to go? She is taking meds for memory loss given by her old GP but we think we should go to a specialist to get further testing. She is having issues with panic/anxiety attacks, mimicking heart attacks, and urinate retention. I just need guidance on what steps to take. My father-in-law is overwhelmed and in denial. I would like to get us ahead of the future. Any suggestions?