Hi, I am new to TP but not new to dementia. My husband was diagnosed almost ten years ago but there were signs for many years before. He goes to a dementia unit two days and a workshop for the disabled for a further two days every week. We have been very lucky with the support we have. All in all our life has evolved around existing with his condition. Our relationship has deteriorated over time yet I feel guilty about missing out on life. He has vascular dementia and was very verbally aggressive and frustrated, mostly with me, for more years than I care to remember. It has worn me out emotionally. Are there others out there in similar situations.