Not been on here for a while - somehow been busy! My mum is deteriorating rapidly. She came out of hospital (urine infection) had reablement for 7 weeks and now has a care package after a referral to social services. SW said it would be better to try and keep her at home and was very good but is leaving the job today.The new Carers are not brilliant, do not seem to understand simple instructions but are trying. I just seem to be constantly moaning. My mum is not eating much not drinking much either. She is now down to 49kg (7st ish) and looks terrible. She has a bed sore and a small one on her elbow. She mumbles incoherently and makes no sense most of the time. She accused me of hitting her today! To be honest I have had enough, checking up on the Carers, checking up on her, trying to work full time and concentrate on what I do as it is a demanding job, and also running my home.I had a moment the other day when I could not remember what I had done or was doing for one of my clients. Panic set in as I thought I had dementia! a quick diagnosis and a rapid recovery thankfully. Not sure what to do next - do I stick with the Carers and see how things go, do I see about Care Homes, the SW recommended two close to where we both live and do I sell her home to fund the care or do I rent it out and use that and her savings for funding. I need to feel my Mum is safe, fed, watered, looked after and I really want to stop feeling so damn angry. This disease has changed by Mum beyond recognition and the once houseproud and clean woman has now become a shell of her former self. I dont know what to do for the best. I would welcome your thoughts and ideas. Thank you