With heartbreaking sadness I've taken the descion to put my mum into a care home,it's been harder than I can explain,but very much taken with the words of the t.p. members words in my ears. I have to do what mum needs and not what she wants as sad as that is. My health is not good & mums is poor, she is virtually immobile and I cannot toilet and transfer several times a day and possibly 2-3 times a night. The guilt monster is on overtime at my shoulder I'm devastated to have to do this my main comfort are the words of the social worker, he said it isn't you that's putting your mum in a home altzheimers is!