My father has dementia and is in care home funded under 117. My mother is living with support from us in sheltered flat. Mum is reaching the point where she needs a bit more care and we were going to just pay for a couple of hours home care for bathing assistance. She would be paying if under council because their funds are just over the limit.
Mum has asked that we arrange for pre payed funerals for both her and dad which we feel is a fair request ( she had seen advert in paper and felt that she wanted this all sorted . She has just lost her brother so guess she is thinking that it would be a good idea to arrange things. She asked us because we have enduring powers of attorney .
We would like to investigate this possibility as per her request as that is her desire.
Doing this would bring mum and dads finances below the council threshold and therefor it may mean she also gets housing benefit for sheltered flat..
Would the council accept this as appropriate use of funds or would they say it was deprivation of assets ?
I feel it is a reasonable thing to do and it is at her request ( she is able to make some decisions and we are ok with this just a little worried as it is potentially £ ( I have no idea of cost at this stage).
Obviously we have no gain from her doing this just do not want to do anything that would cause issues.
Anyone know where to look to find out if this is an acceptable thing to do?
thnx
Mum has asked that we arrange for pre payed funerals for both her and dad which we feel is a fair request ( she had seen advert in paper and felt that she wanted this all sorted . She has just lost her brother so guess she is thinking that it would be a good idea to arrange things. She asked us because we have enduring powers of attorney .
We would like to investigate this possibility as per her request as that is her desire.
Doing this would bring mum and dads finances below the council threshold and therefor it may mean she also gets housing benefit for sheltered flat..
Would the council accept this as appropriate use of funds or would they say it was deprivation of assets ?
I feel it is a reasonable thing to do and it is at her request ( she is able to make some decisions and we are ok with this just a little worried as it is potentially £ ( I have no idea of cost at this stage).
Obviously we have no gain from her doing this just do not want to do anything that would cause issues.
Anyone know where to look to find out if this is an acceptable thing to do?
thnx