Dad's been in the care home for just over a week now. Living so far away I can only visit at weekends but I phone the home daily to see how he's doing and try to soothe my guilty conscience. He's evidently still very depressed, refused to get out of bed yesterday, and his only topics of conversation are how much he wants to die and how betrayed he's been by me. Is this a normal phase? How long might it last? Is there anything I should be doing to try and make things better? There are a number of people who want to visit him in the home but is that a good idea at the moment or should they wait until he's settled in a bit more?