Aunt was taken to the dentist today (we ended up making a private hospital appointment as she has been waiting for months). The verdict following lots of x-rays was that she has abcesses under almost every tooth and he wants to remove them all.
I wasn't able to go with her but am assured she coped really well and the dentist was wonderful with her (his own Mum had suffered dementia it seems). He talked directly to her at all times knowing her carer would absorb the info - just as it should be but sadly often isn't!
He explained everything and only asked questions requiring yes/no answers as she seems to cope with these most days. She agreed she would have them all removed but he has delayed action for another week to allow her time to change her mind. Both the home staff and ourselves intend to repeat the question just in case we got it wrong.
Has anyone else had to take such drastic action? I know she hasn't got loads of teeth left but it seems draconian? I imagined that abcesses are very painful and if she has so many I thought we would have signs - struggling to eat etc. It is a subject we raise regularly because she struggled with dentures soon after her health took a dive and she will indicate a problem when asked but nothing major.
Maybe the "pain" messages aren't getting through to the brain? Just as we had a spell of near blindness?
Kriss
I wasn't able to go with her but am assured she coped really well and the dentist was wonderful with her (his own Mum had suffered dementia it seems). He talked directly to her at all times knowing her carer would absorb the info - just as it should be but sadly often isn't!
He explained everything and only asked questions requiring yes/no answers as she seems to cope with these most days. She agreed she would have them all removed but he has delayed action for another week to allow her time to change her mind. Both the home staff and ourselves intend to repeat the question just in case we got it wrong.
Has anyone else had to take such drastic action? I know she hasn't got loads of teeth left but it seems draconian? I imagined that abcesses are very painful and if she has so many I thought we would have signs - struggling to eat etc. It is a subject we raise regularly because she struggled with dentures soon after her health took a dive and she will indicate a problem when asked but nothing major.
Maybe the "pain" messages aren't getting through to the brain? Just as we had a spell of near blindness?
Kriss