am real sorry about your distress holly and can only say that as a fellow traveller with vascular along the dementia highway, it is a very bumpy ride. i have emotional trips most days and as a 'big boys don't cry' surviver, it is hard to cope with uncontollable and unexplainable emotions. i laugh manically at times, cry for no real reason, feel happy when i have nothing to be happy about and feel sad at times when things seem ok. all mad stuff. on the whole my memory is ok but my character and personality changes drive me, and others, to despair but we have to just keep on and try to view each new day and new way as just another new and interesting adventure. do not give in or up or down or whatever way you see things today...... it will be different tomorrow just as everything is when you think you have a handle on it. lol.
share it all on here, good, bad, happy, sad but share it for your sanity. we are people living with dementia but then so are all those around us, everyone we know now lives with our dementia so share it out. the more that know how it is, how you are feeling, how you are coping or not coping, the better it will be for you and everyone else.
DO NOT LET IT WIN!!!!!! Go out and still enjoy the wonderful things in life that you still have left and try not to dwell on what was, think of what can be.
you are most welcome to contact me via the blog at any time to compare adventures.
good luck
Wayne