I have been to a Dementia Friends meeting at the care home tonight and I am now a dementia friend and my objective is the do a life book for my mum to share her life with the staff and residents of the home who only know her now with dementia. I am happy to do this and will obviously show my mum when it is done but I dont know whether to include the very sad parts of her life, i.e. loss of a son at 3 years old, loss of her husband at 60 and loss of my eldest sister at 50. I dont want it to be traumatic for her. Should I just leave those bits out? I would be very grateful for your opinions. Thanks