Thank you for your welcome message. I am sure I will find some help and encouragement on your site. I have an 85 year old partner with vascular dementia and Alzheimers at about half way through the seven stages. He also suffers from anxiety and depression and it is sometimes hard to define which is affecting him most. One minute he acts as though he is physically ill - shaking and panting - then he can come right out of that and go into crying and feeling useless and not wanting to be here within minutes. Next he is brighter and chatting for Britain! I can deal with the confusion, memory loss and feeling helpless as most times I can do something constructive to help, but I find it so hard to deal with the mood swings and anxiety. Our GP has weaned him off the Venlafaxine he was on for anxiety as it now doesn't seem to be working, so we are waiting now to see whether D's behaviour changes and whether there should be another medication which might help. I'm feeling shattered at the moment, but am finding some of the conversations on the Forums interesting and helpful.