What a morning I had with my mother, all because her diabetic is going out of control blood sugar is high and I rang the district nurse mum medication need to be put up, before going on insulin , she been screaming , had panic attract . She does not want to take any more medication to help her with her diabetic, what can I do I know she not thinking right, does she have a right to refuse medication ? However, to cover myself I have made an appointment with the doctor and the district nurse who are coming around on next Wednesday. She would punch anyone that tried to give her insulin, I know my mother. she just so confused that she can not see that what I am doing is for her best interest , all she say is let nature take it course , if she dies at lest she be at peace with god . I left it with saying do not worry. I love what Bruce wrote and the post after them . I posted in hear as i was reading to take my mind of my mother scarming , then read what Amy said about being Around a table and imagine my self crying talking at the table, while the 2 people had a disagreement in the background that they can not sort out between themselves , but its normal life not always rosy with a group of people or in family .