My uncle is in hospital and very unlikely to last the day. We have not as yet told my nan that he is ill at all we have said he is working away. My nan finds it difficult to retain short term information, however she is canny enough to know something is going on. Her son is her blue eyed boy and phones him about 20 times a day and we have been advised two different things. One to tell her and one to change the subject. My grandad died 6 months ago and sometimes she remembers but most of the time she is constantly asking me where grandad is? My nan is 90 years old and we are a very very close family and we are concerned that if we don't take her down to the hospital what happens with regards to the funeral? Please can someone advise?