Hello,
my aunt has early/medium stage vascular dementia. She needs help with her affairs but has not yet agreed to me having power of attorney because she doesn't think there's anything wrong with her. That's another issue, which will be dealt with eventually. I am having problems helping her with finances etc. For example, now that she's gone into a nursing home, I need to cancel things like a monthly wine order that keeps getting delivered to her home. I won't be selling the house until I get power of attorney. The wine firm won't cancel the order unless she speaks to them on the phone. Every time we try she becomes confused and distressed and hangs up. They have said they will speak to me about it only she gives them permission verbally because of the data protection act. But this hasn't worked despite trying several times because she won't speak to them. I have asked if she could send them a letter instead but they say no. I think this is being unfair as it discriminates against people who can't use the phone. What if she had lost her hearing for example? Neighbours are kindly taking in the wine at the moment, but they aren't a warehouse. And obviously there are other issues like this to deal with. Does anyone know if there is a way to make a company be reasonable and try to assist when a customer becomes unable to use their standard procedures?
my aunt has early/medium stage vascular dementia. She needs help with her affairs but has not yet agreed to me having power of attorney because she doesn't think there's anything wrong with her. That's another issue, which will be dealt with eventually. I am having problems helping her with finances etc. For example, now that she's gone into a nursing home, I need to cancel things like a monthly wine order that keeps getting delivered to her home. I won't be selling the house until I get power of attorney. The wine firm won't cancel the order unless she speaks to them on the phone. Every time we try she becomes confused and distressed and hangs up. They have said they will speak to me about it only she gives them permission verbally because of the data protection act. But this hasn't worked despite trying several times because she won't speak to them. I have asked if she could send them a letter instead but they say no. I think this is being unfair as it discriminates against people who can't use the phone. What if she had lost her hearing for example? Neighbours are kindly taking in the wine at the moment, but they aren't a warehouse. And obviously there are other issues like this to deal with. Does anyone know if there is a way to make a company be reasonable and try to assist when a customer becomes unable to use their standard procedures?