Hi Everyone,
My LO has lewy body dementia and is up and down like a rollarcoster. He doesn't know sometimes where the toilet is but other days has a better recall of days than me.
He is going through a bad patch at the moment, he's lost time, day, year and thinks things are normal.
I haven't slept properly for a week and feel like putting him in a home as my patience is running out. I have never put him in respite as he made me promise he wouldn't be put in a home and keeps reminding me. How do you cope with the breaking of a promise if things get to that point?
Lewy Body patients don't lose their memory like AD but suffer with hallucinations which are very real and involve people they knew years ago (some dead) which is very trying when you have to join in the situation as reasoning and reality don't work.
The problem i find is that the bad days come and go without warning so if i planned respite he may be ok when he had to go and would be aware of everything. You can't explain that i need a rest as there is no reasoning and i can't cope with the guilt after making a promise.
Doris
My LO has lewy body dementia and is up and down like a rollarcoster. He doesn't know sometimes where the toilet is but other days has a better recall of days than me.
He is going through a bad patch at the moment, he's lost time, day, year and thinks things are normal.
I haven't slept properly for a week and feel like putting him in a home as my patience is running out. I have never put him in respite as he made me promise he wouldn't be put in a home and keeps reminding me. How do you cope with the breaking of a promise if things get to that point?
Lewy Body patients don't lose their memory like AD but suffer with hallucinations which are very real and involve people they knew years ago (some dead) which is very trying when you have to join in the situation as reasoning and reality don't work.
The problem i find is that the bad days come and go without warning so if i planned respite he may be ok when he had to go and would be aware of everything. You can't explain that i need a rest as there is no reasoning and i can't cope with the guilt after making a promise.
Doris