Hi Everyone,
Dad fell at the care home again last week and broke his hip. A few years ago he had broken hip the other side and had he had it fixed. He is in intensive care unit ward for recovering patients after operations, he cant walk or talk any more. Just the odd word. They gave him an epidural rather then sedation for the operation.
He is 84 years old now. Also has heart disease, lower back spinal trouble, along with other health issues as well.
The hospital said his blood pressure and body temperature is very low, he covered in blankets. He has a heat thing on underneath his bed to keep him warm.
I question is it fair for him to continue with all this suffering, he must be in tremendous pain. Plus he cant even communicate his pain either. He is in later stages of Alzheimer's and his teeth are blackened now. He was not ware of what the doctors were doing to him when taking his blood pressure and examine him either. Its like life in reversal of the baby years again. When you have no clue whats going on or why. Its just so awful.
I just feel confused and fed up at times. I am an only child so have no siblings to turn to. or talk to about this illness he has. My Mum passed away when I was a child myself so I didn't have that connection long with her. No one around now knew my Mum so its not like I cant talk to them about her ways, what she was like even. They cant understand as they never knew her. I have an unsupportive cousin who does not really care.
My own health has suffered due to everything. I have an ulcer in my tummy and lower back pain of which a few weeks ago I could not hardly walk with. But I struggled through the pain with exercise and willpower. Dads an hour and half away by public transport.
My husband works nights and has to sleep day times and has a lot of pressure in his job now. I am not working due to my health. We just about manage financially.
I just wanted to say how I feel really.
Dad fell at the care home again last week and broke his hip. A few years ago he had broken hip the other side and had he had it fixed. He is in intensive care unit ward for recovering patients after operations, he cant walk or talk any more. Just the odd word. They gave him an epidural rather then sedation for the operation.
He is 84 years old now. Also has heart disease, lower back spinal trouble, along with other health issues as well.
The hospital said his blood pressure and body temperature is very low, he covered in blankets. He has a heat thing on underneath his bed to keep him warm.
I question is it fair for him to continue with all this suffering, he must be in tremendous pain. Plus he cant even communicate his pain either. He is in later stages of Alzheimer's and his teeth are blackened now. He was not ware of what the doctors were doing to him when taking his blood pressure and examine him either. Its like life in reversal of the baby years again. When you have no clue whats going on or why. Its just so awful.
I just feel confused and fed up at times. I am an only child so have no siblings to turn to. or talk to about this illness he has. My Mum passed away when I was a child myself so I didn't have that connection long with her. No one around now knew my Mum so its not like I cant talk to them about her ways, what she was like even. They cant understand as they never knew her. I have an unsupportive cousin who does not really care.
My own health has suffered due to everything. I have an ulcer in my tummy and lower back pain of which a few weeks ago I could not hardly walk with. But I struggled through the pain with exercise and willpower. Dads an hour and half away by public transport.
My husband works nights and has to sleep day times and has a lot of pressure in his job now. I am not working due to my health. We just about manage financially.
I just wanted to say how I feel really.
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