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Dads, endless end of journey

Discussion in 'End of life care' started by rarkaah, Jan 12, 2017.

  1. rarkaah

    rarkaah Registered User

    Dec 17, 2016
    26
    Dad in hospital and he has 3 bedsores and today they will make a decision about his care... it's like What more can he cope with...Love you Dad and only wish you comfort.......
    Later stages of Vascular Dementia

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  2. Babymare01

    Babymare01 Registered User

    Apr 22, 2015
    232
    Its an awful journey we share. Sending you hugs xx
     
  3. Cat27

    Cat27 Volunteer Moderator

    Feb 27, 2015
    8,637
    Merseyside
    Wishing you strength.
     
  4. Grannie G

    Grannie G Volunteer Moderator

    Apr 3, 2006
    64,732
    Kent
    Hello rarkaah

    I hope your dad can be made more comfortable. He needs comfort at this stage in his life, and so do you.
     
  5. angecmc

    angecmc Registered User

    Dec 25, 2012
    2,113
    hertfordshire
    Thinking of your poor dad and you, hope he's made comfortable soon xx

    Ange
     
  6. lemonjuice

    lemonjuice Registered User

    Jun 15, 2016
    1,045
    England
    Again another one just wishing you love and strength.

    This 'last stage' just seems so endless and the longer it drags out the more suffering it seems to involve.:(
     
  7. Red66

    Red66 Registered User

    Feb 29, 2016
    363
    How have you got on with your Dad? X
     
  8. rarkaah

    rarkaah Registered User

    Dec 17, 2016
    26
    At least they are not going to do surgery on pressure sores they have been patched up and the hospital are staying no plans for him to return to nursing home due to treatment he is having to make him comfortable xxx Dad love ❤️ you...


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  9. rarkaah

    rarkaah Registered User

    Dec 17, 2016
    26
    Thank you xxx


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  10. rarkaah

    rarkaah Registered User

    Dec 17, 2016
    26
    A week today before my husbands and I holiday and my emotions are all over the place xxx if my Dad was at peace I would be and that sounds awful and I feel guilty for saying it [emoji22][emoji22][emoji22] we are going to go I know he'd want it for when our Mum passed he postponed the funeral for us... and his wife now has made her plans and my family say we will do our own arrangements and I don't want them to reach their 10 wedding anniversary as he and our Mum was together 42 years
    It's a complete head rollercoaster xxx


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