Here's me thinking Dad wanted to make a living will because of some of the patients he had seen when visiting Mum. He told me last night he's thinking of stopping his blood transfusions as they don't help much anymore and the next step would be chemo which he doesn't want. He just doesn't want to go on without Mum. I fully understand what he's saying. It would be different if either he or Mum were fit and healthy but there's not much chance of either of them getting any better. Just trying to get my head round this.